- 27 Oct 2004, 18:30
#238
Wel its true wht Samiha said about Barkah after marriage but tht was in the old days, there wer diff ppl at tht time thn now! Rite now the world has changed, things r diff, if u go marry some1 thinking tht things wil get better for u n for ur family thn ur not thinking right! These days u need education upto Uni, work hard so as to survive, whn u get married, u need to take care of the family, bills, tax and soo much more, back in the old days, there we're no such things as tax if am not mistaken but now there is so its not easy.. The only thing u need to take care is how ur gonna survive, hw r u gona manage living as a married life n educate ur children! Tht's more important! If today u don have a shilling, thn hw do u expect to marry someone and think ur gonna get barkah and things wil get as perfect u want? No, it doesn't work like tht.. Work hard, strugle, earn n praise to god and thn i can say if u get married, ul get barkah.. These days the ways of living is totally different, n tht's y v really need to take care..
If today ur rich, like really rich and u knw u can afford anything and its time to get married, wud u get married or not? Obviouslly yes ! Right? Its bcuz u knw u can live a happy life with ur family, educate ur childen n stuff. But for those who r poor? They need to t.c, if u knw u can survive, have enough money to feed ur self n ur family n as wel educate ur childen thn its fine so far but if u think u cant, thn i don advice u shud get married til the day ur ready for it.. I agree tht sumtyms marriages don last long but there are reasons behind tht which v mite talk on another topic..
Marriage is a great responsibility! Ppl get married for different reasons not all of them have the same!
as-Salaamu 'aleykum warahmatullah